The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness

137. Want to Get Married? Love Being Single First

Most women believe that getting married will finally make them feel better.
More secure.More wanted.More at peace with their life.
But what if the very thing you think will fix your unhappiness…isn’t actually the solution?
What if learning to love your single life firstis the very thing that prepares you to create the kind of marriage you actually want?
By the end of this episode, you'll understand why learning to love being single is the key to choosing marriage from strength—not fear.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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136. If Dating Feels Miserable, This Is Probably Why

Have you ever found yourself thinking about dating…
And then talking yourself right out of it?
Maybe you tell yourself you'll start later…
When you feel more ready…
More confident…
More certain.
But somehow…later…never seems to come.
And over time…
Dating starts to feel harder and harder.
Not because dating itself is impossible…
But because of what's happening inside your own mind.
By the end of this episode, you'll understand the invisible work that makes dating feel easier—and how to start doing it.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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135. Rejected? Think Again.

Have you ever walked away from a dating experience feeling rejected…
Like he didn’t see you…Didn’t choose you…Didn’t move things forward the way you hoped?
And maybe you didn’t say much out loud…
But inside…
You were thinking things like:
What did I do wrong?Why wasn’t I enough?What is it about me that keeps this from working?
Maybe even…
Something must be wrong with me.
But what if rejection didn’t begin in the moment, you think it did?
What if it started somewhere much earlier…
In a place most women never think to look?
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to recognize where rejection might actually begin — and why seeing it clearly could change everything.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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134. Will You Love, Even When It Feels Risky?

Have you ever held back your love… just a little… because you were afraid of what might happen if it didn’t work out?
Afraid of loving more than he does.Afraid of loving first.Afraid of what it might mean if he stops loving you.
Sometimes it’s not love itself that feels scary…it’s what we make it mean about us if love doesn’t last.
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to love—even when it feels risky.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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133. Does He Want What You Want?

Have you ever dated a man where everything felt good…You enjoyed being together…You laughed…You felt chemistry…
And yet—you had no idea where the relationship was actually going?
No clarity.No direction.Just this quiet uncertainty in the background that made you wonder:
Are we building something… or just passing time?
Because here’s what I’ve learned…
Chemistry is easy.Fun is easy.But alignment? That’s something very different.
And if you don’t know how to recognize it, you can spend months—or even years—investing in relationships that were never headed in the same direction.
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell whether you're building a relationship with real direction—or just enjoying connection that isn't going anywhere.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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132. Do You Like How You Feel When You're With Him?

Have you ever walked away from a date and found yourself replaying everything you said… wondering if he liked you… wondering if you said the wrong thing… wondering if maybe this could turn into something?
And maybe you’ve told yourself that those butterflies mean chemistry… that nervous feeling means attraction… that the intensity must mean something important.
But what if some of those feelings you’ve been calling chemistry… are actually telling you something completely different?
What if the way you feel when you're with him is giving you clues… signals… information you’ve never been taught how to read?
By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to tell the difference between chemistry and compatibility—and how to recognize the feelings that help you choose the right man.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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131. Wondering If He Likes You? You Need to Hear This

Have you ever found yourself wondering…Does he like me?
And then suddenly you’re overthinking everything—what you said, how you said it,whether you should text him, or wait…
And without even realizing it, you start showing up just a little differently.A little more careful.A little more filtered.A little more focused on being liked than being yourself.
But what if that’s not actually the most important question to be asking?
What if the real question—the one that can change everything about how you date—isn’t about him at all…
In this episode, we’re going to talk about the subtle ways you might be losing yourself in dating without even realizing it…and how to shift back into a version of you that feels confident, calm, and fully you.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to tell if you’re becoming more of yourself in a relationship…or quietly becoming less.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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130. Before You Fall in Love, Consider This

How do you actually know if he is someone you should be dating?
Not just someone who’s attractive… or funny… or exciting to be around. But someone who could truly fit the life you want to build.
A lot of women go into dating hoping they’ll just know when it’s right.
But what if the real key to choosing the right man has less to do with chemistry… and more to do with understanding what really matters to you?
In this episode, we’re going to talk about how to stop guessing in dating and start recognizing the kind of man who actually aligns with the direction you want your life to go.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to recognize whether the man sitting across the table from you is someone you truly want to build a life with.
And if you’d like the values worksheet I mention in the episode, just send me an email at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com and I’ll send it straight to your inbox.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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129. Stop Dating Until You Answer This Question

If you’ve ever said, “I just want a relationship,” but haven’t slowed down long enough to ask yourself why… this episode is for you.
So many single women spend years — and shed real tears — trying to find love without ever deciding what they actually want to create. And when you don’t know what you’re trying to create, dating gets heavy, emotional, and exhausting.
Today, we’re pulling back the curtain on the question most women never ask before they date — the question that can save you years of confusion and heartache.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly why you want a relationship — or why you don’t — and how that clarity changes everything about the way you date.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
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128. How to Stop Worrying About the Future

What if worrying about your future isn’t helping you at all?What if stress and anxiety about what might happen are actually keeping you stuck and stealing your peace right now?
In this episode, we’re unpacking why your brain worries, why worrying feels responsible and productive, and the real difference between fear and the mental habit of worry.
We’re also talking about what actually creates your future — and why worrying about relationships, money, aging, or being alone doesn’t move your life forward the way you think it does.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to stop worrying about your future and start building the one you actually want.
WHAT’S NEXT? 👇
💗 Get my help now…Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/freehelp