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096. Stuck? How to Stop Waiting for Easy and Do the Hard Thing

Still stuck between what you want and what it actually takes to get it? This episode is your wake-up call.
We're diving into a one-sentence verse from 1 Kings that packs a punch—and reveals why so many of us stay halted between desire and action. If you’ve been waiting for life to feel easier before you take the next step… this one’s for you.
Inside the episode:
The sneaky trap of waiting for “easy”
Why wanting isn’t enough—and what’s missing
The truth that everything is hard until it’s not
How to build real self-confidence, one hard thing at a time
Why coaching helps you move past “impossible”
PLUS:🎧 Grab your free Summer Rewind Playlist—a plug-and-play guide with your top 5 favorite episodes to help you stop living on autopilot and start building the life you want.Get it at sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
You don’t have to wait for easy. You can do hard things. Let’s go.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
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🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

095. Your Summer Playlist for Confidence, Joy & Love: The Top 5 Must-Listen Episodes

☀️ Summer may be for slowing down—but your happiness doesn’t have to hit pause.
In this fun, feel-good episode, I’m sharing YOUR favorites—the 5 most downloaded episodes from the past year—so you can keep building confidence, joy, and love all summer long. Whether you’re new to the show or ready for a refresher, I’ll break down the biggest takeaways from these powerful episodes—and I’ve created a free Summer Rewind Playlist with clickable links to all 5 so you can binge them anytime.
We’ll cover:✨ The 3 key relationships that create happiness and joy✨ How to handle loneliness and the fear of being single forever✨ Why sadness about singleness is real—and how to rewrite your story✨ How to stop chasing love and start attracting it✨ The secret to mastering your attitude and waking up happy
Want the free Summer Rewind Playlist? Grab yours at
🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Happiness isn’t on hold this summer—let’s dive in!
 
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

094. The Rejection That Hurts Most? The One You're Doing to Yourself!

Let’s be honest—rejection hurts. Whether it’s the guy who ghosts you, the invite that never comes, or watching someone else get the promotion you prayed for… it stings. But here’s the real truth: the most painful rejection isn’t when they say no—it’s when you reject yourself.
In this episode, I’m showing you how self-rejection sneaks in, how it’s holding you back, and what to do to stop it. You’ll learn how to stop making rejection mean something’s wrong with you—and how to start having your own back, no matter what.
Because when you accept you, love you, and believe in you? Rejection loses its sting.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

093. Single and Childless? How to Keep God's Command to Be Fruitful, Multiply and Replenish Without Having Babies

Struggling with the command to “be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth” when you’re still single and childless? This episode will change how you see it—forever.
In today’s conversation, I’m unpacking one of the most quoted scriptures and showing you how it applies to you—yes, even if you never marry or have kids. You’ll learn how being fruitful, multiplying, and replenishing the earth isn’t just about diapers and wedding rings. It’s about growth, influence, and bringing goodness into the world.
If you’ve ever felt left out of God’s plan because of your marital status, I hope you’ll listen in. You’re not behind. You’re not disqualified. You’re already living this command—one faithful act at a time.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

092. Stuck in the Spin? What Changed When Erin Said "Yes" to Coaching

In this special episode, I’m joined by my coaching client Erin, who opens up about her journey from feeling stuck in a hamster wheel—busy but never really moving forward—to finding clarity, confidence, and real momentum in her life. We talk about what led her to coaching, what surprised her most along the way, and how things have shifted as a result. If you've ever wondered what it’s really like to work with me 1:1, or what can happen when you finally stop spinning and start moving forward, this conversation is for you.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

091. Wish He'd Change? Here's How to Heal Even If He Never Does

Father’s Day can bring up a lot—especially if your relationship with your dad, ex-husband, or any man in your life still feels painful. In this episode, I’m sharing three questions that can change your relationship—even if he never does. If you’re ready to take back your peace, this one’s for you. 💛
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
 

090. The Single LDS Woman: It's Time to Say What No One's Saying About Singleness in the Church

After 89 episodes, I’m making a bold change.In this special episode, I share why the podcast is now called The Single LDS Woman, why I’m narrowing my focus (not my heart), and what this shift means for you—whether you're LDS or not.If you’ve ever felt unseen in your faith community as a single woman, this episode is for you.
💌 I’d love to hear from you!What did this episode bring up for you? Are you LDS and navigating your own unique struggles? Not LDS but still feeling seen here?Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com and let me know what resonated—or what you’d love to hear more of on the show.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

089. Still Single and Still Hurting? You're Not Missing the Answer - You're Dismissing It!

You’ve been praying for a husband for years…and nothing.  You’re faithful, you’re doing your part, and yet the loneliness still stings.  I came across a post that said, “Your singleness isn’t a problem to fix – it’s a space to flourish.”  I loved it.  But the comments underneath? Oof.  They broke my heart.  Today, we’re talking about what might be really happening when it feels like God’s ignoring your prayers – and how to shift your prayers and perspective so you can finally feel seen, loved and confident again.
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
 

088. Can You Really Change Your Life? Yes - But Only If You Know This

Ever wonder why you start strong… but still don’t get the results you want? Why no matter how badly you want to change your life, you keep slipping back into old habits, old thoughts, and old patterns?
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why change feels so hard—and what you need to know to finally break the cycle. With help from a surprisingly wise little lobster 🦞, I’ll walk you through my 4-step strategy to stay in the growth zone (instead of giving up when things get tough).
This one’s for the woman who’s tired of feeling stuck—and ready to grow into the life God is calling her to live and knows is just over the horizon.
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

087. The 4-Step Breakup Plan for the Most Toxic Relationship in Your Life (It's Not What You Think)

Breakups are hard—but what if the one breakup you really need… isn’t with a guy, but with a toxic thought that’s been dragging you down for years? In this episode, I’ll show you how to finally cut ties with the lie in your head that’s been shaping your life—and walk you through a 30-day plan to break up and break free. This is the kind of breakup that leads to the life you desire. 💔➡️💪
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider!Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to workshops + events!🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook!Come hang out with other single Christian women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group:🔗 The Single Christian Woman
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation CallIf you're ready to kick your toxic thought to the curb with support, let’s talk.🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.