The Single Christian Woman | Faith and Relationships, Loneliness, God’s Plan for You, Christian Dating Advice, Spiritual Growth
Do you find yourself feeling lonely, wondering if God has forgotten you? Do you wish you could trust yourself and have higher self-confidence, but you constantly doubt if your next step is the right one? Are you having trouble hearing God’s answers or direction, but aren’t sure how to build a stronger connection? If you said yes, you are in the right place. In this podcast you will find an honest conversation about being single in the Church. You will learn how to transform your thinking to build God rooted self-confidence so you can move from fear and doubt knowing that your next step is the right step. You will hear practical strategies, tips and tools to help you strengthen two key relationships: the one you have with God and the one you have with yourself including you confidently going after and achieving your dreams and desires. Hello, my name is Sharon Lamar, I am a certified life coach specializing in relationships and am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t measure up. You see I failed to check all the boxes in the “correct” time frame…I remained single until age 52. I was independent, had a demanding and successful career yet still wanted the experience and companionship as a wife and mother. Sometimes, I was happily single and other times unhappy. In the unhappy times, I was anxious and convinced that time was running out and doubted that what I wanted was even possible. I was sure something was wrong with me. Even worse, I believed I had been forgotten by God. I was afraid and doubting. Over time I began to realize how God communicates with me and I felt his love for me. I also discovered the power of coaching. Communicating with God on a deeper level combined with coaching I learned to trust Him and myself. I developed the confidence to go after what I want AND all that He has in store for me. And now I’m excited to share all I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to trust yourself, to deepen your relationship with God and live confidently knowing your next step is the right step, this is the podcast for you. So, grab your Diet Coke, put in those earbuds and let’s chat…friend to friend. Visit my website: www.sharonlamarcoaching.com While you are there book your FREE session and let’s transform your thinking to build God-rooted self-confidence. Email me at: sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
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Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Hey gorgeous!
How is life going?
Is your answer to that question, “Everything is going wrong.” Or maybe your answer is “My life is a mess right now.”
If life is that way right now you, my friend, are in the right place.
This episode is all about the times when everything is going wrong. I have 4 things for you to remember when life is hard.
My four things to remember, might challenge you a bit or at least make you think. I invite you to listen in and consider that what I offer is worth remembering and doing right now.
Let’s jump in.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Jan 15, 2024
Monday Jan 15, 2024
Hey gorgeous!
What are we talking about today?
We are going to talk about how to meet men!!
It is human nature to ask “how” when you are trying to do something that is new or scary. “How am I supposed to do that?” You want to know the how before you even start.
You are conditioned to believe that you need to know the “how” before you start. That belief can keep you stuck.
You don’t have to stay stuck waiting for the “how” you can unleash the power of your amazing brain to come up with the “how” anytime you want by asking the right question.
And it is no different with wanting to meet men. How can you meet them? Good question.
Let’s put our brains to work and find out how.
What’s Next:
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Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com with questions/comments about today’s episode. I’d love to hear your ideas of how to meet men.
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you answer the question “How can I meet men?”
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Hey gorgeous!
Are you ready to let go of the past?
Are you wanting to step into your future yet not sure how, given how life has worked out so far?
Well, in this episode I am going to teach you the ABCs of what to bring with you and what to leave behind as your let go of your past and step into your future.
Not only will I teach you what to leave behind and take with you I will teach you how to do it!
Let’s jump in.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you leave your past behind and step into the future you want to live in.
Monday Jan 01, 2024
Monday Jan 01, 2024
Hello my gorgeous friend!
I am super excited about today’s conversation.
What I am about to teach you changed my life when I learned it 4 years ago.
We are going to talk about how you can create the life that you want.
That may sound rather lofty…but it is possible. You can create the life you want to live.
I will teach you the 4 elements of life, how they interact and how they impact your ability to create the results you want in your life.
Spoiler alert…as you come to understand what I am about to teach you; you can create the life you want!!
Promise.
Enjoy the episode! And Happy New Year!
This one is a game changer!
Let’s jump in.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you create the life you want.
Monday Dec 25, 2023
Monday Dec 25, 2023
Hello my gorgeous friend!
I am super excited about today’s conversation.
We are going to talk about miracles! Perfect conversation as today is Christmas Day 2023.
We are going to dig into and answer 3 specific questions…
Do you need a miracle?
Do you believe the Lord can work a miracle in your life?
What does it take to receive a miracle?
During the episode I will share one of my own miracle stories and offer up several strategies that you can borrow to bring your own personal miracle to life.
Enjoy the episode! And Merry Christmas!
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Dec 18, 2023
Monday Dec 18, 2023
Hello my gorgeous friend!
Have you been looking at the pool of possible men and find it to be shallow?
Does it seem that all of the good men are already taken?
Are you wondering if it is time to move somewhere else to find love?
Great question!
This episode is all about making that very decision.
Whether or not you should stay right where you are or move, I invite you to consider 4 truths…
Consider that you might be about to play wack-a-mole
Your brain goes with you
Whatever you decide make it the right decision
If you decide to stay you will need to move
I hope that as you consider these 4 truths you will make the decision that is right for you.
Enjoy the episode!
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Dec 11, 2023
Monday Dec 11, 2023
It is confession time!
Time to be vulnerable and share some of the juicy details of dating.
In this episode I share three of my own dating relationship stories and the three lessons I learned from those relationships.
I invite you to listen in and lean into these three lessons and then let them become 3 tips you will keep in mind on your next date.
Don’t be stupid! Instead, be smart! There is a reason that “patience” is the first attribute of Charity. And there is a reason why we don’t get what we want right when we want it. Lol! 😊
Don’t rationalize or make excuses. Instead, be willing to see the truth.
Don’t forget why you are dating and what you want. Instead, be willing to hold auditions.
And bonus lesson – Keep your eyes open!
You will want to listen in to hear the juicy details of how I learned those lessons.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Hello my gorgeous friend!
Do you have a case of “stinking thinking”?
Does the sound track playing in the background of your life sound something like: You are not good enough? You will never be __________ enough to get _______.
You are __________. Fill in the blank...stupid, boring, ugly, fat, etc.
Does that at all sound familiar to you?
Well, if you are like the rest of us, human single Christian women, you have thought those thoughts at some point. Maybe you are thinking them right now.
In this episode I will give you a peek into my own self-talk struggles. And, more importantly, I will give you one proven method to begin changing your self-talk and five strategies to re-train your brain to think more loving thoughts about you.
I hope this episode blesses you.
Wishing you all the best God has in store just for you.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Nov 27, 2023
Monday Nov 27, 2023
Hello my gorgeous friend!
“Does God truly love me? And how to I find out?”
Another great question submitted by a listener.
And a question that I have struggled with myself. A question where I learned the truth for myself as I dug in with God to find out how he truly feels about me.
In this episode we will dig into this very question.
We will explore the four kinds of love.
I will give you three questions that will help you begin to better understand your relationship with God.
And I will give you two things to do to become a believer of God’s love for you.
I hope this episode blesses you.
Wishing you all the best God has in store just for you.
What’s Next:
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I hope this episode inspires and helps you.
Monday Nov 20, 2023
Monday Nov 20, 2023
Hello my gorgeous friend!
How do you enjoy the holidays with your family as the only single?
Great question. And a timely question as this episode airs the week of Thanksgiving 2023.
Today’s question or topic comes directly from a listener: a single Christian woman, just like you who is trying to navigate life and specifically this time of year.
In today's episode, I will offer up ideas to consider as we look three things:
What does your marital status “single” say about you?
What are your expectations of the holidays? And,
How do you want to experience the holidays?
Wishing you all the best God has in store just for you.
Sharon
What’s Next:
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Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com with questions/comments about today’s episode.
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Solve a problem. Book your FREE 1:1 session at www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/freesession
Share the show with all your single girlfriends.
I hope this episode inspires and helps you.