The Single Christian Woman | Faith and Relationships, Loneliness, God’s Plan for You, Christian Dating Advice, Spiritual Growth
Do you find yourself feeling lonely, wondering if God has forgotten you? Do you wish you could trust yourself and have higher self-confidence, but you constantly doubt if your next step is the right one? Are you having trouble hearing God’s answers or direction, but aren’t sure how to build a stronger connection? If you said yes, you are in the right place. In this podcast you will find an honest conversation about being single in the Church. You will learn how to transform your thinking to build God rooted self-confidence so you can move from fear and doubt knowing that your next step is the right step. You will hear practical strategies, tips and tools to help you strengthen two key relationships: the one you have with God and the one you have with yourself including you confidently going after and achieving your dreams and desires. Hello, my name is Sharon Lamar, I am a certified life coach specializing in relationships and am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t measure up. You see I failed to check all the boxes in the “correct” time frame…I remained single until age 52. I was independent, had a demanding and successful career yet still wanted the experience and companionship as a wife and mother. Sometimes, I was happily single and other times unhappy. In the unhappy times, I was anxious and convinced that time was running out and doubted that what I wanted was even possible. I was sure something was wrong with me. Even worse, I believed I had been forgotten by God. I was afraid and doubting. Over time I began to realize how God communicates with me and I felt his love for me. I also discovered the power of coaching. Communicating with God on a deeper level combined with coaching I learned to trust Him and myself. I developed the confidence to go after what I want AND all that He has in store for me. And now I’m excited to share all I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to trust yourself, to deepen your relationship with God and live confidently knowing your next step is the right step, this is the podcast for you. So, grab your Diet Coke, put in those earbuds and let’s chat…friend to friend. Visit my website: www.sharonlamarcoaching.com While you are there book your FREE session and let’s transform your thinking to build God-rooted self-confidence. Email me at: sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
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Monday Dec 30, 2024
Monday Dec 30, 2024
Welcome back to The Single Christian Woman! 💖 Today’s episode is going to challenge the way you think about God’s plan for your life. Have you ever wondered if you’re living the life God intended for you? Or maybe you’ve worried that somewhere along the way, you made a decision that veered you off course—like choosing a career over marriage or buying your own home before “the right time.” 🤔
Well, let me tell you something, my gorgeous friend: God’s plan isn’t about micromanaging every step you take. His Plan is about potential, purpose, and divine design—YOUR divine design. ✨
In this episode, we’re diving into what “divine design” really means and how you can take ownership of your life, discovering the gifts, passions, skills, and victories that make you uniquely equipped to live boldly in this season of singleness. This isn’t about waiting—it’s about moving forward.
Grab a pen and paper, because we’re going on a journey of discovery to help you unlock the life God has equipped you to live. Are you ready? Let’s get started! 🎧
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Love-Ready Lab registration: https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/lab
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Dec 23, 2024
Monday Dec 23, 2024
What if happiness isn’t the goal? What if there’s something deeper, more meaningful, and long-lasting that’s available to you right now—even in singleness?
In today’s episode, we’re diving into how you can move beyond fleeting moments of happiness and step into the true joy God has designed for your life.
You’ll discover what joy really is, how it’s different from happiness, and how you can cultivate it in your season of singleness.
If you’ve ever wondered how to feel truly fulfilled regardless of your circumstances, this episode is for you. Let’s unlock your potential for joy!
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Dec 16, 2024
Monday Dec 16, 2024
Are you wondering if your singleness is just a filler—a phase you need to endure until the "main course" of marriage arrives?
Maybe you’re asking yourself: What if I never get married? What if this isn’t the life I was supposed to have? Am I stuck on Plan Z while everyone else is living their Plan A?
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into these questions and flipping the script. What if this season of singleness isn’t a placeholder but your main course—a time full of potential, purpose, and divine design?
Together, we’ll explore a powerful shift in perspective that can help you embrace where you are right now, collaborate with God, and live fully in the present. Stay tuned, because this conversation might just change how you see your life—and yourself.
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
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Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Dec 09, 2024
Monday Dec 09, 2024
We all have them. Those questions we are dying to ask but not sure who to ask and are embarrassed to ask.
Today we are going to talk about one such question that is probably in your head now or has been at some point.
If I’m so good, why hasn’t God blessed me with a husband?!
Maybe you phrase the question slightly differently, but you wonder why God hasn’t blessed you with a husband yet.
Let’s talk about it!
Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Hello friend.
Who is running your life? Is it you? Or maybe it feels more like your mom, or your boss, or your ex, or sister is running your life.
You begin your week feeling you have a handle on things and feeling pretty dang good about the days ahead, when bam! There she is your mom, doing the mom thing and now you don’t have a handle on things and are feeling pretty crummy.
Or it’s not your mom, it is your ex. You thought you took back control over your life when you divorced or broke up with him and then bam, there he is right back in control making you feel less than and angry again.
Listen friend, we all have them. Those few people who seem to suck us right back to a place and the way of being we thought we had left behind.
If this sounds like you, you are in the right place today. I have exactly what you need to take back control over your life.
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Nov 25, 2024
Monday Nov 25, 2024
Hello friend.
Are you tired of chasing after your dream of being in a relationship with a good man, who loves you and wants to be with you?
Is the energy needed to keep chasing and pursuing love taking a toll on your self-esteem?
Are you finding yourself less and less willing and able to get excited about the whole dating scene?
Do you feel ready to throw in the towel and stay single even though what you really want is love?
Well, my friend, you are in the right place with this episode. I have radical way for you to quit chasing your dream and instead attracting your dream.
No more chasing. Instead, you will attract what you desire! Listen up while I drop the steps of how to move away from chasing to attracting. You are going to want a pen and paper for this one!
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Nov 18, 2024
Monday Nov 18, 2024
Hello friend.
That magical time of year has arrived! Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years. About 6 weeks of magic or 6 weeks of misery! 😊
Right?! Magical or miserable often seem to be the two choices we give ourselves.
And we have a tendency to think that it will be one way or the other depending on who shows up for the gathering, how they behave, whether or not the turkey is dry and the pies are good.
We mistakenly think that unless it looks and acts like a Norman Rockwell painting then it is a miserable holiday.
So not true my friend. Your holiday season can be magical even if cousin Mary and her family show up late. Even if uncle Bob yammers on and on about the recent election. Even if the turkey is dry and the pies are not so good. And even if you are show up as a party of 1!
Listen in and learn how to make your holiday season magical!
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Hey my gorgeous friend,
This episode is for you if…
You are sick of being lonely.
You want to get unstuck and find love.
You know that God has more in mind for you than a life of fear and doubt.
You wish there was a way to overcome problems and obstacles.
You want the confidence to know your next step is the right step.
You believe that your future is yours for the making and taking.
The reality is you are having a hard time making all those wishes, wants and beliefs your reality. So, you don’t think it can happen for you.
Imagine if it can happen! Just imagine. I promise, it is possible. You can have the life you imagine!
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Nov 04, 2024
Monday Nov 04, 2024
Hey my gorgeous friend,
Are you finding yourself feeling pretty dang frustrated because someone, maybe that guy you are interested in, just isn’t doing it right?
You know what I mean. There you are laying down all the clues that you like him and want him to like you back and it just isn’t happening.
Or maybe, it isn’t a particular guy who is doing it wrong. Maybe it is your sister, mother or friend who is frustrating you. They just aren’t behaving correctly.
They aren’t doing or saying the things that you know they should. If they just, did it your way, you could feel happy, secure, wanted and loved.
But they aren’t doing it and so you not feeling to happy, secure, wanted or loved.
Maybe if you just wait long enough, they will come to their senses and do it right and you can feel all those good feelings. So, you wait and wait some more. All the while being more and more frustrated.
There is a better way my friend. And that is what this episode is all about. You getting what you want.
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Hey my gorgeous friend,
Are you already feeling disappointed rather than excited at the thought of going out on one more first date? Are you beginning to believe it is less painful to just stay with the feeling of loneliness rather than trying again?
Is it hard to keep the promise you made yourself when you joined that dating app to spend 30 minutes each evening engaging with your matches? You find you would just about do anything other than what you promised you would do.
Or, has the whole idea of trying to find a companion become too painful to even try. You are sure that you aren’t attractive enough, smart enough, thin enough so why even try.
Listen my love, there is a better way, a less painful way to create the life you desire. All that is required is self-confidence. You don’t have it now, that is why you are ready to give up or have already given up.
In this episode I share with you the 3 aspects of self-confidence that are required for you to create the life you want. The truth is you have been trying for a long time to create that life and have not been successful. When you develop self-confidence, the way I teach it, you will have exactly what you need!
Let’s jump in. Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.
What’s next?
Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.